All of our episode topic recently is ideal Sex extremely we have been writing about… best gender we’ve had! We are joined by Autostraddle journalist, poet, and journalist Dani Janae as we get into some steamy anecdotes accompanied by an in-depth conversation regarding what makes great sex good. And then we fork out a lot of time back at my intimate hang ups that I may or may not have in fact done a lot of focus on come july 1st!

Appear for any lesbian movie-themed online game, stay for all the coming.

SHOW RECORDS

+
The 200 Best Lesbian+ Movies record
that Christina pulled the overall game from.

+ when you haven’t study Dani’s
Anatomy of a Mango
series you truly must.

+
This is the essay
I blogged concerning the individual We mention in the event. Its only already been couple of years but plenty changed!

+ The summer has passed so we however stan Olivia Rodrigo. Watch the
“intense” songs video
.

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Dani:

The cat and also the dog happened to be when you look at the room and there had been cat-and-dog locks every where. And thus, I found myself undoubtedly having an allergic response while we happened to be having sexual intercourse. Although climax had been like cook’s kiss. It actually was the most wonderful, best knowledge actually.

Christina:

We ponder whether or not it’s one thing regarding hives that really included just a little

je ne sais quoi

to this orgasmic experience.

Theme track plays

Drew:

This is

Hold off, So Is This a Date?

Christina:


Hold off, Is This a Date?

is an Autostraddle podcast all about, you guessed it, internet dating.

Drew:

Yay! I Adore dating. I Am Drew Gregory. I am an author for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and just common trans gay person across internet and… I became likely to state world, but it is really similar to l . a . and nyc.

Christina:

Everyone loves this globe trotting homosexual individuality you are facing right here in 2021.

Drew:

I would like that. Yeah, it is for future years.

Christina:

Yeah. I will be your different host, Christina Tucker, additionally a writer for Autostraddle, deranged deafening homosexual online. Just sort of away right here, writing, being homosexual, doing what we can every minute to try to sort out this existence that people’re residing.

Drew:

You’re actually carrying it out. You are really operating through that life.

Christina:

Frankly, it really is all i will perform. That is all We have, it is the sole option.

Drew:

I absolutely have respect for the attempt.

Christina:

The try to stay?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Yeah. In fact, really fearless of us to even attempt it. You’re not incorrect, you aren’t incorrect. Is it possible you be interested in playing some online game today, Drew?

Drew:

Oh my Jesus, i am very excited. Can’t wait observe what you have actually for me.

Christina:

I am therefore happy you asserted that since you definitely need to say yes, for the reason that it’s section of this bargain that individuals’ve produced here. So you may know about that on autostraddle.com, website, we’ve a summary of 200 lesbian motion pictures.

Drew:

I am aware of it. I may have written it.

Christina:

You might have. The thing I have inked is actually pull a selection of 10 of these films. I have kept these to the most known 50. I will provide storyline key words as chosen by users on IMDb and you’re gonna need to guess what flick it really is.

Drew:

Okay. I recently desire the listeners, wherever you happen to be, to find out that I am not attending pull-up record. I think that is right, am We let’s assume that’s correct in how I needs to be respecting the game?

Christina:

In my opinion that is extremely sincere and I genuinely believe that’s fair. I also sort of depend on this is certian end up being something that comes to mind rather easy for you, I didn’t go too kept.

Drew:

We have a dreadful memory space, but yes, i’ll you will need to set people up for reasonable expectations.

Christina:

Reasonable enough.

Drew:

Anytime i actually do effectively, it is similar sort of strike all of them away, incase I don’t excel, are going to like, “Well, she mentioned…” Anyways, carry on. Let’s begin this.

Christina:

Let us begin. I will start off with pretty basic ones and that I will receive a lot more specific even as we get, because a number of them tend to be actually precisely what the film is during two terms. So weare going to just be sure to begin with a wider knowledge right here.

Drew:

I enjoy it.

Christina:

The first movie: medicines could be the very first story word. Manhattan, New York City is the 2nd. Hate criminal activity is the next.

Drew:

Okay.

It Is Throughout Me Personally.

Christina:

Yes, it is! See, we knew you would certainly be capable of this.

Drew:

Great.

Christina:

I absolutely understood you would certainly be able to perform this.

Drew:

Also, I just need to try to let people understand that that is one of the more underrated lesbian movies, therefore should find it. And Leisha Hailey where flick has become my personal telephone back ground for one or two years. So simply an enjoyable small reality truth be told there for every people.

Christina:

We like that. All right, film number 2. “as yet not known grandfather,” body organ donor, cemetery, loss of son. Oh, she is considering.

Drew:

I’m like i ought to surely fully grasp this considering — wait, unfamiliar pops, loss of daughter, organ donor. Oh,

All About My Personal Mommy.

Christina:

Indeed there really, see.

Drew:

Someone else of my preferences.

Christina:

It’s very thrilling observe things that folks determine are a story key phrase that they need to move because of these movies. I’m additionally maybe not checking out all types that are only lesbian because that seems similar to a gimme.

Drew:

Which is how I developed most of the list as if you look up lesbian movies, what you discovered was actually the outdated Autostraddle listing or some lists that aren’t extremely thorough, so I would in fact search through databases with the keywords and phrases of lesbian, lesbian making out, these things like girls kissing, these specific things, and discover movies in which they are maybe not regarded as a lesbian flick because they’re a bit more fascinating, or maybe just a little bit much less drive, that is certainly the way I found some of the flicks being now regarding the list, thus back to where it started.

Christina:

Listen, IMDb keyword phrases to arrive helpful for all of us all the time. This one, men and women went wild with this one. So just planning read some random words to you. Hey, whistling, woman, black sports bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, on the job crash.

Drew:

On-the-job crash? Oh, I thought I Got it right after which, well—

Christina:

Colder, in parentheses, the temperature.

Drew:

Due to the fact at first I was planning to state

Foxfire,

but the working crash switched me personally up. On-the-job collision.

Christina:

Would you like more?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Pickup truck crashes through a fence.

Drew:

Is-it

Miseducation of Cameron Post?

Christina:

It is far from.

Drew:

Because on the job collision could be a truly dreadful means of explaining any particular one regarding the homosexual because you’re trying to convert to perhaps not gayness, tries to mutilate by themselves or really does mutilate themselves. That’d be quite intensive, but i did not know making use of IMDb thinkers. Okay, hold off, this is tricking myself right up.

Christina:

Do you need some more from myself?

Drew:

Vehicle through a fence. I’m sure it is something which I’m simply not… Yeah, keep working.

Christina:

Mention of a school loan. They are thus peanuts.

Drew:

Hold off, maybe you have viewed this flick?

Christina:

I’ve come across this motion picture.

Drew:

Could it possibly be wild that I’m not getting it?

Christina:

It is somewhat untamed. I am able to supply per year, if you’d like annually.

Drew:

Any time you give myself a-year, I’ll absolutely get it.

Christina:

Okay. 2016 is the 12 months.

Drew:

2016. Okay, let me know what it is.

Christina:

It’s the film,

Various Ladies,

2016.

Drew:

Oh! Yeah.

Christina:

I must say I thought vehicle accidents through a wall would allow you to get, but I also merely love they only pulling out nouns and merely becoming like, “male.” Would be that what you believe?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Okay.

Drew:

That’s the movie. I need to see that again.

Christina:

Truly. It is a fantastic flick.

Drew:

Yeah, it really is an extremely fantastic movie.

Christina:

Fine, the subsequent film. Kissing whilst having gender.

Drew:

The number one form of both, possibly, you might say.

Christina:

Seduction, dude ranch.

Drew:

Could it be

Desert Hearts?

Christina:

Yeah. And so I was actually like, “Okay, you got to have that next one.” The other one I found myself likely to give you had been — “nipples” was the really prominently featured. And I ended up being like, “Sure, that is part of that film.”

Drew:

God,

Desert Hearts.

You probably know how there’s all those frustrating men and women online attempting to be Shane. Sorry, What i’m saying is, in case you are wanting to be Shane, we take you. But me personally, my frustrating thing is that i am attempting to be Cay. Cay because flick is similar to which exactly who i believe of because method of lesbian that I want to be.

Christina:

Yeah, that is true, can confirm. Fine, tend to be we prepared for the subsequent one?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Season—

Drew:

Hold off, no, We have yet another thing to express about

Desert Hearts.

Christina:

Certain.

Drew:

Following finally time we re-watched it throughout the summer time, it sort of sent me into hook spiral, and that I texted this earlier semi-closeted individual that I’d sort of started tentatively wanting to day or day whatever, and that has vanished for per month, and I had abadndoned because Really don’t beg individuals to date myself. But I just ended up being love, “Okay.” We watched

Desert Hearts

and that I had been want, “I guess possibly occasionally people have their internalized whatever.” And that I texted the girl and I also mentioned, “Whenever we never satisfy, i believe you are going to regret it.” And in addition we performed meet, so as that’s exactly what

Desert Hearts

can perform for you.

Christina:

Wow, that’s a very effective endorsement.

Drew:

We probably should never have came across. I probably requires only let it be. But anyways, moving forward, then motion picture.

Christina:

Our very own next movie, metaphysics, scene during orifice loans — exactly what that implies, it is for you to decide — senior school football, Chicago, Illinois.

Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.

Christina:

There you decide to go.

Drew:

That’s another great flick. I prefer that I hold getting amazed through this number that I had a rather strong submit position. It isn’t really my ranking, but used to do have a large say inside positioning and that I like it.

Christina:

Yeah. I simply desire to be obvious for you and all of our audience — once again, I picked through the leading 50, very normally good types. On the good types, they are good ones. I’m Sure Drewshould continually state this will be an excellent movie after each one, but—

Drew:

They’re excellent motion pictures, you guys should see all of them.

Christina:

Okay. Brief skirt with heels.

Drew:

Love it.

Christina:

Cock blocked, mini dress with boots.

Drew:

After all, can it be

Blockers?

Christina:

It is far from. That would be too easy, In my opinion, for

Blockers.

Drew:

I don’t recall any miniskirts, but—

Christina:

Feminine backside nudity.

Drew:

Okay. Hold off another. Okay, just what the second. Okay, cock blocked, mini top, female rear nudity.

Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Split dance.

Drew:

Could it possibly be

Certain?

Christina:

It isn’t really.

Drew:

No, I would personally love a break dancing world.

Christina:

I really like some slack dancing scene in

Certain.

Drew:

A break moving world.

Christina:

I’ll offer you: English lady overseas.

Drew:

English woman overseas? This will be someone else in which I believe I surely should get it.

Christina:

I’m going to need to offer you a pretty evident one at some point, with the intention thatshould assist.

Drew:

Okay, give myself an obvious one.

Christina:

Undercover agent.

Drew:

Is-it

D.E.B.S?

Christina:

It is not

D.E.B.S.

It is next to

D.E.B.S.,

type of movie sensible. Here is a differnt one, intrigue.

Drew:

Okay, wait, there is not that lots of genre motion pictures.

Christina:

You can findn’t, that’s true.

Drew:

Undercover agent. Well, maybe they can be utilizing the term, is it

The Handmaiden?

Christina:

It is far from.

Drew:

Okay, i did not think-so. Undercover representative.

Christina:

Do you want your season?

Drew:

I Imagined that… Positive.

Christina:

Your year is actually 2017.

Drew:

Undercover agent.

Christina:

I’m so sorry. You are going to feel so stupid while I say the concept for this one.

Drew:

Oh no.

Christina:

I am actually sorry about that, but that is type just the method the cookie crumbles.

Drew:

Oh, it really is

Carol.

Christina:

No, it isn’t really

Carol.

Drew:

No, it says 2015.

Christina:

Yes, I know that. It isn’t

Carol.

Drew:

But there’s an undercover — the man, that is where I happened to be thinking. Okay, what-is-it? How does it generate myself feel foolish?

Christina:

It’s

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.

Drew:

Oh, that’s in top 50?

Christina:

Its. I’m sure.

Drew:

Oh, okay.

Christina:

All right. We’ve got four a lot more, you ready?

Drew:

Really don’t believe that silly for the reason that it one I… i am talking about, I think

Atomic Blonde

is actually fun, but I do not consider it’s fantastic. That could never be inside my personal leading 50. I actually do wish the world to understand that i understand that

Carol

arrived in 2015. My brain damage. I simply wish worldwide to know that. Anyways, continue.

Christina:

The world today knows that, the record has been shown. All righty: cafe, feeling of scent, novelist, regard to a hamburger, reference to Larry King, based on memoir, alcoholic, theft, girl wears glasses, residing by yourself, ruining evidence.

Drew:

The regard to Larry King is actually—

Christina:

It is a really weird one.

Drew:

Regard to Larry King, destroying research.

Christina:

Cat.

Drew:

Oh, is it

Can You Actually Forgive Me Personally?

Christina:

Truly.

Drew:

I had to develop to get me. I happened to be actually in a slump here.

Christina:

You nailed it. In my opinion you’ve got here, In my opinion you absolutely got indeed there. Okay, three a lot more, the top three. I do believe these types would be simple for you because i am aware you.

Drew:

Great, fine, really…

Christina:

I understand, but i am claiming, isn’t it time?

Drew:

Okay, yeah.

Christina:

Psychological state, medicine overdose.

Drew:

Is-it

Foxfire?

Christina:

No. Photographer.

Drew:

Oh,

Higher.

Christina:

There we get. Tattoo, girl group.

Drew:

Is it

Foxfire?

Christina:

Yeah.

Drew:

Oh, I know

Foxfire.

Christina:

I found myself like, “Oh, she’s going to only keep speculating

Foxfire

until i simply offer the woman

Foxfire.”

Drew:

The trick usually I like

Foxfire

and I hold attempting to remember

Foxfire.

Christina:

I am talking about, whomst among us?

Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.

Christina:

Okay. This Package, one of these is—

Drew:

This is the final one?

Christina:

This is the last one. This might be our final one. Church, assertion, household interactions.

Drew:

Is-it

Miseducation of Cameron Post?

Christina:

It’s not.

Drew:

Can it be

But I Am a Cheerleader?

Christina:

Its, yes.

Drew:

Certainly. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Article.

Christina:

Jokes on laughs. To make sure that ended up being the overall game I’m contacting, How Well really does Drew understand Lesbian films???

Drew:

I love just how good the audience is creating labels for the games.

Christina:

Yeah, it’s actually mortifying that I even penned that inside title of a Bing Doc, what was we thinking? It doesn’t even appear great within my Google Docs.

Drew:

I experienced a good time and I also’m actually happy that I got to inform all audience about all motion pictures which they should see. So we’ll put the list in program notes.

Christina:

Absolutely.

Drew:

I might declare that record has become at someplace where In my opinion you might get some thing of seeing all 200 flicks. One version of record, there is some things on there that I became not as happy with. There still is items that I think that I don’t individually but i believe that as one, absolutely a specific quality assurance after this latest revision that I believe happy with and I think they’re all well worth witnessing.

Christina:


i thought about this